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imi's avatar

The way you showed that love changes shape as children grow older, but doesn’t become smaller really, really touched me. This whole piece made me very emotional.

“But adult sons give differently. They give through intention.” I love that for you Monica. I love that you're being chosen by the people you once carried every day. You deserve the best of everything and I love seeing you get the care and value you deserve.

Also all the little details, the shoes in the hallway, falling asleep on the couch, staring into the fridge saying there’s nothing to eat, made this feel so alive and real.

Really lovely piece.

Happy Mother's Day.🤍

Stephen J. Lemire's avatar

Wonderful! Happy Mother's Day.

Moorea Maguire's avatar

Happy (early) Mother's Day, Monica!

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Happy Mother’s Day to you as well Moorea

Moorea Maguire's avatar

Thanks Monica. I’m not a mom, but if I were, I’d be a lot more emotionally engaged than mine. 😩

V S Uma's avatar

Hey Monica

The post is to the dot 👌🏽

Perfect 👌🏽

Loved this post to the core 🫶

A heartfelt thanks from a mother 👩

💜☮️💜☮️💜

V S Uma's avatar

Hey Monica

Have a joyous and fantabulous day with your children 🩷🩷🩷🩷💐💐💐

They may be adults but they are always children only for mothers 🙏🏿

Isn’t it??

Gathering the Pieces of Me's avatar

So beautifully said and summed up the heart of a mother. Thank you Monica 🌸🌸🌸

Monica A Leyva's avatar

So glad you enjoyed this

Antonio Castellaneta's avatar

The details made this real.

The shoes in the hallway, the full refrigerator, the ordinary sounds returning for a weekend.

Beautifully felt.

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Thank you I am one lucky mom

AsukaHotaru's avatar

I’m at the bed already being ready and you still fixing it... That is such a mom thing, all that tiny nervous-happy love needing somewhere to go~

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Yes, and to pass time until the plane lands.

Monica Fernandes's avatar

Happy Mother's Day! Lovely poem and tribute. That is a testament to the great role model you are. Take a break from Substack and spend time with them. I love you, but they are present and a present for you this weekend. Tough love from your squared.

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Thanks my friend. Love you too

Silent Words with Cynthia Wong's avatar

Monica- You know I know. Every line, appreciation, gift, shoe that is left is "sacred". Happy Mother's Day dear friend. What a gift you gave them that they want to come back to see you! Sending hugs!

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Thank you. I haven’t had them all here for Mother’s Day for a couple years so this weekend is a special gift.

Silent Words with Cynthia Wong's avatar

I am soooo excited for you Monica! Truly am!

Greta Mae's avatar

Awe, Monica, I am so happy to read this...and yes a little tear wants to come out. This is my first Mother's day without both of my adult children, since the Army won't allow that leave, and instead of being sad he isn't going to be here, I am proud of him, and my heart is reminded of that joy from the years of sacrifice you mentioned-- it is precious and so worth it.

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Greta, isn’t it amazing how proud we are of them as they become amazing adults. My middle son hasn’t been here for Mother’s Day for a couple years so this is going to be an extra special weekend.

Gary L Taylor's avatar

Beautiful. Wishing you a wonderful Mother's Day.

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Thanks Gary

Human Threads's avatar

As a mother of four adult children This really resonated. It made me feel a mix of happy and sad. I love it to when we are together but I miss the years they needed me more.

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Yeah, me too.

J Altazar's avatar

Ahh I hope you are Blessed and cherish every moment! Our children are the World’s 🌍 best!

Monica A Leyva's avatar

They are indeed.

J Altazar's avatar

Yay, We get a trailer for Mother’s Day! Final payment and Go Time. Enjoy ‘till your Heart Swells and Waters the Eyes.

Monica A Leyva's avatar

Have a wonderful weekend.